That devotion is admirable, but restrictive. You're not giving your whole self, to those you deny, now are you? Everyone here, is special, and unique, It's not possible to love them in the same way, because they are not the same. No two people ever are. It's not more or less, it's just different. Why would I deny the love someone has for me, because I love another. That's not fair to either of us. And so, I share my love with them. I understand where you are coming from, I do. But as i've said, how is that fair to anyone, if you have to deny their love, and restrict your own?